Coffin Necklace & Earring Set by Ms. Paisleys Parlor

 

Coffins?! Why yes, please and thank you! When I saw this beautiful coffin necklace and coffin earrings by Ms. Paisley's Parlor on her etsy shop, I knew I had to purchase them! I absolutely love onyx and I love coffins, so it was a no-brainer that these pieces needed to be added to my jewelry collection. 

I've been shopping from my etsy favorites list as I think it's more important than ever to support small business, artisans, crafters, etc. I know I am SO appreciative of every single purchase that people make from the Coffin Kitsch etsy shop. I've gotten into the habit of looking for sewing supplies on etsy and ebay, so I'm supporting a person (or family business) rather than a big box store. A lot of the times I find more unique items and get a nice personal experience. I also find joy in using the supplies I get from other small businesses to create my handmade items that I have for sale. It's a pretty cool cycle when you think about it!

Wearing:

Coffin necklace & coffin earrings: Ms. Paisleys Parlor

Dress: Widow Clothing (old, fuck Dolls Kills)

Lace-up flats: ebay

What are some of your favorite independent designers/brands, etsy stores, etc? I'm always looking to support our little spooky community!

Modified Lip Service Maxi Dress

 

I have to admit I had a strong Poshmark addiction for while. It was way too easy to use the app to find 2nd hand clothing, shoes, etc. Most of my purchases were hits and a few were slight misses. This Lip Service dagger maxi dress wasn't exactly a miss, but it was way too tight in the chest. So, I gave it a chop and made the dress into a maxi skirt.

Poshmark listing, photo from seller.

I carefully cut off the top part which included the corset-like waist (it actually looked terrible on me anyways), and then cannibalized a separate skirt for the large elastic band. Pinned elastic to Lip Service skirt, ran it through the sewing machine and Voila! Breathed some new life into something that wasn't getting worn!

I used to be so afraid to modify certain pieces of clothing because, of the brand's label or thinking I was going to "hurt" the garment in some way. Pfffft, I've gotten over that. If it doesn't work and I can make it better to fit me (and have the confidence to not destroy it completely), I go for it! I did want to be a 'fashion designer' at one point in my youth, so I feel like I'm channeling that little dream. :)

Wearing:

Bat necklace: ebay (old)

Crystal chain necklace: Purgatory Playthings

Crop Top: Target

Skirt: Lip Service via Poshmark

Shoes: thrifted by Julie Ann, gifted to me. Brand: London Underground

I'm always striving to wear what I have and be grateful, but I'm not going to deny that I do like to hunt for new pieces. I've been window shopping etsy and ebay, but I have been staying away from Poshmark. I had to break up with her as it was toooooo tempting. Hahaha! I know Poshmark is only a USA app, so have any of you used any other 2nd hand app or site that I haven't mentioned?

Daily Driver Attire

A lot has changed in the past two years since I paused on blogging, but more recently (in these pandemic times) Derek's and my life has changed drastically. I'm not going to dive too much into all the changes, but one major thing is that I am now driving Derek to work about 5 days a week. Andddd....

Derek is a tattoo artist and unfortunately due to the months of lock down and quarantine, his shop closed. The shop which he ran for 6.5 years. Closing a business during a global pandemic was traumatizing, to say the least. The old shop was basically around the corner from our house, so with him starting at a new shop that is much farther away, insert yours truly as the daily driver. Honestly, I really don't mind at all! I get Derek safely to work, I get out of the house and I get to wear some fun outfits to amuse myself. Dressing is a way to keep some normalcy for me and it helps to lift my spirits. I did giggle when I paired my sunglasses to my pants.

Wearing:

Modified Dr. D t-shirt by @drdtattoo (his IG)

Pants: Forever 21 (old)

Sandals: KOI Footwear via Pretty Little Things

Sunglasses: via a local shop

I do have admit every time I drop Derek off to work, I am in fear as COVID-19 is a VERY serious situation. Derek is at risk every time he goes to the tattoo shop and every time he is exposed to a client. I know he is taking all precautions, using extensive PPE protection, along his already diligent cleaning practices. I do have some peace of mind as the tattoo shop, as a whole, is following all CDC guidelines and then some. What worries me is everyone else. The people who don't wear a mask, those who don't wash their hands, those who are gathering in large groups and those people who don't think COVID-19 is real. And in turn he is worried about exposing me, that's why we both agreed on household practices to try and keep ourselves safe We will be getting tested regularly and as of our last test, we are negative. 

Please stay safe my friends <3